I actually had to ask him what i “dont let him buy anymore” and we had a hard time coming up with things because Im not an extremist and anything hes stopped buying has been by his choice. He used to buy all sorts of snacks, junk food, chocolate bars, chips, beer all the time (weekly at minimum) and now as he’s learnt more those things have drifted into being “occasional” items . But he used to buy coffee and snacks at gas station every morning when we met and when we joined finances all I had t